Today I forgot to read my Bible. My excuse?
By far the most popular one in America: I had "no time."
Let's examine that excuse. Why do we all seem to have no time for anything,
much less for prayer?
I am constantly feeling guilty about this, and I suspect most of you are
too. I think the single biggest obstacle to our relationship with God (after
sin, of course) is "no time." If I gave my children as much time
as I give God, I could be prosecuted for child neglect and abuse. If I spent
as little time with my wife as I spend with God, she'd have grounds for divorce
Yet we all know from experience that when we give God time, we are happy.
When we cheat God, we cheat ourselves. We know this from thousands of repeated
experiments. And yet we keep running away from God, from communion with God,
from prayer, as if it were bitter medicine. We are so afraid of silence and
solitude, which are necessary for private prayer, that we give it to our most
desperate criminals as the most horrible torture our mind can conceive"solitary
Why don't we seem to have as much time as our ancestors? In fact, we all
have exactly the same amount: twenty-four hours each day. Technology should
have given us scads of extra time. Our lives should be oozing with leisure.
All those time-saving devices! Yet they've done exactly the opposite. The
more time-saving devices we have, the less time we have. (The only way to
get time is to turn the clock back, not forward!) What went wrong?
Today, machines have replaced slaves; yet we have
less leisure, not more. Why?
Our great-grandmothers took many hours to scrub their clothes on a hand-held
washboard; we just push a button on a washing machine. Our forefathers had
to grow, hunt, and slaughter their own food; we buy it at the supermarket,
open the microwave door, and push a button. Yet we are far more harried and
hassled by time than they were. Why?
In most ancient societies, the rich had slaves to do their manual work so
that they could enjoy leisure. Today, machines have replaced slaves; yet we
have less leisure, not more. Why?
This is not the place for a general diagnosis of our society's sickness (though
for a quick, profound hint, read Pascal's Pensées, especially on "diversion").
But it is the place for a diagnosis of our excuse for not praying,
and I think this diagnosis has many other applications too.
"All that we are begins with our thoughts; it moves as our thoughts
move, and it ends where our thoughts end." So says Buddha, wisely. We
must begin here with our thoughts about time. We don't have time for
prayer because we think wrongly about time and prayer.
We have time and prayer backwards. We think time determines prayer, but
prayer determines time. We think our lack of time is the cause of our
lack of prayer, but our lack of prayer is the cause of our lack of time.
Lack of prayer is the cause
of lack of time.
When the disciples came to him and said, send the crowds away,
so they can go to the villages and buy themselves some food.
Jesus replied, "They do not need to go away. You give them something to eat."
five loaves and the two fish and looking up to heaven, he gave thanks and broke the loaves,
he multiplied them miraculously. He does the same with our time, but only if we offer it
to him in prayer. This is literally miraculous, yet I know it happens from
repeated experience. Every day that I say I am too busy to pray, I seem to
have no time, accomplish little, and feel frazzled and enslaved by time. Every
day that I say I'm too busy not to pray, every time I offer some time-loaves
and life-fishes to Christ, he miraculously multiplies them and I share his
conquest of time. I have no idea how he does it, I know that
he does it, time after time.
And yet I resist sacrificing my loaves and fishes to him. I am an idiot.
That's one of the things original sin means: spiritual insanity, preferring
misery to joy, little bits of hell to little bits of heaven.
We must restore our spiritual sanity. One giant step in that direction is
to think truly about time.
Time is like the setting of a play. The setting is really part of the play,
contained by the play, determined by the play. But we often think the opposite:
we think the play is contained by the setting. We think that the theme, the
meaning, the spirit of the play is in its material setting instead
of the other way around.
That's like thinking the soul is in the body. In fact, the body is in the
soul. So says St. Thomas Aquinas. And since time measures the movements of
material bodies, while prayer measures the movements of the soul, time is
really in prayer rather than prayer in time. Prayer determines and changes
and miraculously multiplies time (the loaves and fishes).
Prayer multiplies time.
But prayer multiplies time only if and when we sacrifice our time, offer
it up. There's the rub. We fear sacrifice. It's a kind of death.
All the real religions of the world are based on sacrifice, on willing death.
Only the fake religion of pop psychology (which has infiltrated even the modern
church) ignores this fact. Even pagans and polytheists know it. The most popular
god in India is Shiva, the Destroyer, and the most popular goddess is Kali,
his female equivalent. Even Hindus know the importance of spiritual surgery,
death, sacrifice. After Calvary, how can Christians know this any less? Our
Lord repeatedly taught us that unless we took up our cross and followed him,
we could not be his disciples.
This probably means some terrible and difficult things; but one of the simple
and easy things it means is to sacrifice our time to God. For time
The point is very simple: in order to create time to pray, we must destroy
time to do something else. We must kill something, refuse something, say no
To what? Let me make a simple, obvious, radical suggestion: the TV. Kill
the TV. Go cold turkey for a month. I dare you. If you can't do that, then
TV is your drug and you're an addict. "A man is a slave to whatever he
cannot part with that is less than himself," said George MacDonald.
Eternity is not in the future
but in the present.
Every single person and family I know who has done this (voluntarily) has
been very happy about it. TV is largely a sewer pipe anyway; why fill your
brain and your soul with the waste products from the most bigotedly antireligious
elite in our society? Even if there were nothing to sacrifice TV for,
it would be good to sacrifice it, to save your moral sanity and intelligence.
All the more reason to sacrifice it for prayer. Find out how many hours a
week you watch TV and use just half of that time for prayer. You get a threefold
benefit: garbage cleanup, prayer time, and extra time left over.
The alternative is the mental slavery we see around us, the juggernautthe
worrying and rushing and never getting there because "there" is
not in time at all but in eternity. The modern world is unhappy because it
does not touch eternity. All true happiness is a foretaste of eternity.
Eternity is not in the future but in the present. The future is unreal, not
yet real. One of the devil's most ridiculous and successful lies is the idea
that we should devote our lives to pursuing and acquiring goods we do not
yet have rather than enjoying the ones we do have. This makes us slaves to
time, to the unreal future, forever, for "tomorrow is always a day away."
The first rule for prayer, the most important first step, is not about how
to do it, but to just do it; not to perfect and complete it but to
begin it. Once the car is moving, it's easy to steer it in the right direction,
but it's much harder to start it up when it's stalled. And prayer is stalled
in our world.